I don’t know? I don’t mean to sound so… I mean, I haven’t really thought about who I like… I just thought one day love would walk up to me and say here I am.
That's okay! People figure that stuff out at different times and in different ways! I still flailed a lot at Alex when she started flirting with me and I already mostly knew I was gay, so.
Magic. And also smelly feet. Alex has the smelliest feet I have ever smelled on a girl! I think it’s because she doesn’t always wear socks with her sneakers and I don’t even care because she’s perfect.
If you want to kiss her then you should kiss her because obviously she wants to kiss you. Girls are so great, this is obviously the most delightful option!
And if you aren't sure if you want to kiss her, you need to tell her. Decide whether you want to think about it until you figure it out or just, you know, kiss her until you figure out if that's what you want. (Which is, you know, the most fun way to figure things out! But also be careful of your feelings and hers!)
And if you definitely don't want to kiss her, either now or anytime in the future, you absolutely need to tell her and then she needs to not kiss you.
Well there's two kinds, there's do NOT want, and do not WANT. Like, in high school this guy had a crush on me and my friends told me that he totally looked like he was going to ask me out and I just kept thinking oh no please don't do that! That is do NOT want. And then there's like...pizza. Pizza is great and you might like pizza but you're just not in the mood for it right now so you say no thanks? Or everyone else is like PIZZA! PIZZA! when choosing where to go for dinner and you're just like yeah, whatever, I could eat pizza, but you are not chanting PIZZA! PIZZA! with them. Those are both kinds of do not WANT.
I don't want this to seem like I'm pressuring you into liking her, but I need to say that Harlow is really pretty! Like I would think that even if she wasn't your Harlow and I just saw her on the street! 10/10 would check her out and point her out to Alex so she could also appreciate the pretty.
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Date: 2019-02-07 11:33 am (UTC)I don’t know! I was mostly surprised.
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Date: 2019-02-07 11:37 am (UTC)Do you like girls that way at all? (You don't have to tell me if you don't want. But you can.)
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Date: 2019-02-07 11:38 am (UTC)I don’t know? I don’t mean to sound so… I mean, I haven’t really thought about who I like… I just thought one day love would walk up to me and say here I am.
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Date: 2019-02-07 11:42 am (UTC)That's okay! People figure that stuff out at different times and in different ways! I still flailed a lot at Alex when she started flirting with me and I already mostly knew I was gay, so.
But also...maybe it did?
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Date: 2019-02-07 11:47 am (UTC)How did you know you liked Alex?
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:00 pm (UTC)It wasn't like one thing, or one time, it all just kind of added up together?
Like I would get so flustered when she was teasing me so I would think Oh gosh she has to stop I feel so silly!
But then if she did stop, or I even really thought about her stopping, it was...disappointing, I guess?
And then by the time I had a sexy dream about her it was like oh yeah, I got it bad, no hiding it now, Cora.
I think it's usually in there somewhere. Between the flailing and the sexy dreams.
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-02-07 12:10 pm (UTC)I love her SO much.
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:11 pm (UTC)What is that like?
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:32 pm (UTC)Magic. And also smelly feet. Alex has the smelliest feet I have ever smelled on a girl! I think it’s because she doesn’t always wear socks with her sneakers and I don’t even care because she’s perfect.
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:34 pm (UTC)I love you guys together.
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:38 pm (UTC)Thanks! <3 I do too. :P
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Date: 2019-02-07 12:40 pm (UTC)But what do I do?
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:28 pm (UTC)That depends on what you want!
If you want to kiss her then you should kiss her because obviously she wants to kiss you. Girls are so great, this is obviously the most delightful option!
And if you aren't sure if you want to kiss her, you need to tell her. Decide whether you want to think about it until you figure it out or just, you know, kiss her until you figure out if that's what you want. (Which is, you know, the most fun way to figure things out! But also be careful of your feelings and hers!)
And if you definitely don't want to kiss her, either now or anytime in the future, you absolutely need to tell her and then she needs to not kiss you.
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:31 pm (UTC)I have one more question because I think you want me to kiss Harlow!
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:34 pm (UTC)I only want you to kiss Harlow if you WANT to kiss Harlow but also I support girl-kissing in general it is GREAT. What is your question?!
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:40 pm (UTC)How do you know if you DON’T want to kiss someone
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:49 pm (UTC)Well there's two kinds, there's do NOT want, and do not WANT. Like, in high school this guy had a crush on me and my friends told me that he totally looked like he was going to ask me out and I just kept thinking oh no please don't do that! That is do NOT want. And then there's like...pizza. Pizza is great and you might like pizza but you're just not in the mood for it right now so you say no thanks? Or everyone else is like PIZZA! PIZZA! when choosing where to go for dinner and you're just like yeah, whatever, I could eat pizza, but you are not chanting PIZZA! PIZZA! with them. Those are both kinds of do not WANT.
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:51 pm (UTC)I don’t feel either of those.
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Date: 2019-02-07 08:57 pm (UTC)So maybe you like her!?!
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Date: 2019-02-07 09:00 pm (UTC)Maybe?! I’ve always liked her the most of all people?
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Date: 2019-02-07 09:06 pm (UTC)That's a pretty good start! I mean, that plus sexy stuff is basically what having a girlfriend is! At least in my experience.
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Date: 2019-02-07 09:07 pm (UTC)Hmmmmm.
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Date: 2019-02-07 09:14 pm (UTC)I don't want this to seem like I'm pressuring you into liking her, but I need to say that Harlow is really pretty! Like I would think that even if she wasn't your Harlow and I just saw her on the street! 10/10 would check her out and point her out to Alex so she could also appreciate the pretty.
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Date: 2019-02-07 09:16 pm (UTC)She’s the prettiest person in the entire universe!
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